With apps like Tinder now on the smartphones of million people, it has become clear that hookup has gone mainstream. Things that were once considered taboo are now openly embraced, with casual hook-ups just one in a long list of sexual adventures. Swinging is one of the activities that was once talked about in hushed tones. But which is now suddenly starting to see a real rise in popularity. There are a lot of happy couples looking to get into the lifestyle as swinging is now commonly referred to. And the internet is the clearest path to the experience for many of them.

Getting started with swinging online

Finding other people involved in the swing lifestyle is a whole lot easier than it has ever been. Since an internet connection is all you really need to get started. There are many different sites and online forums dedicated to swinging, and your path begins with getting involved there. Perhaps we should back up a little here first. There is one thing you need to do before getting into a swinging site. We are, of course, talking about making sure that you and your partner are on the same page when it comes to the lifestyle. Not only should it be something that you are both committed to, you should also have a clear set of rules in place that you both agree to adhere to. Once that is done, you are ready to go in search of your first online swinging connection.

• 1 Sign up at a SLS dating site

As we have already mentioned, there are several sites devoted to bringing willing swingers together. As a couple, you should take time to review these SLS dating sites to see which appeal to you the most. You may decide to settle on one, but you can increase your chances of a successful online match by choosing a few that you like.

• 2 Put together a COMPLETE profile

This is a tip that is true of any dating site, traditional or not. Building trust online is important, and you can only do that by being as up front and honest as possible. That begins by making sure that your profile is complete and accurate. Using current pictures of you and your partner, keeping in mind that racy shots are okay, too. Make it perfectly clear what you are and are not willing to do. For example, you may be interested in a threesome, a soft swing, or a hard swing where anything goes.

• 3 Contact couple that appeal to you

There are a lot of folks who set up their profile and then sit back waiting to be contacted. While you will certainly get some attention, you need to get out there and talk to the people you like. Be aware that there are going to be some who do not respond, which is all part of the process, but why risk missing out on a great connection simply because you played it coy?

• 4 Take some time to get to know potential partners

In many cases, your initial connection will be done over the internet. Most of the good swinger websites will allow you to chat, sometimes even via video, with other members. This is a great way to break the ice to see if you really do share common interests and attractions. If you find that you are really hitting it off, you can then move on to the next step.

• 5 Meet in person

There are very few cases where swingers spend some time online and then immediately swap and hop into bed. In most cases, there will be a few meetings that are essentially the same as a traditional date. The goal here is to be totally sure that you have the connection you believe you do. This is also where a lot of people get hit by the reality of what they are doing. If you can meet and get along with your other couple, and still feel that you want to get into the lifestyle, then you are probably good to go.

Again, we cannot stress enough that everyone needs to be in agreement before the swinging takes place. It only takes a single person saying no to the arrangement to bring it to an end. This should not be taken personally, as there are many reasons why someone may not want to go through with the swing. When you all agree, then get out there and have some fun.